Will You Be My Bridesmaid?

When Mitch and I got engaged, I knew immediately who I wanted to be in my wedding party. After being in a wedding years ago where the bride and I’s friendship ended up fizzling, I didn’t even want that to be an option for the gals in my group. I don’t want to look back on my wedding photos one day and think “It’s too bad we aren’t friends anymore!”

Most brides-to-be these days give a little gift of some sort when they ask a friend to be a bridesmaid. I was no different. Although, I may have gone a little crazy.. I just love the gals in my life so much! And gift-giving is seriously one of my favorite things to do in life.

If you’re engaged and looking for some fresh, new ideas to give your gals when you pop the question, here’s what I gave my wedding party:

Custom Cuyana Toiletry Bag Set – my sister got me turned onto these a couple of years ago when she gifted them to my mom and I! They are amazing quality, and you can really add a personal touch if you get your friend’s initials stamped on them. Plus, they come in a variety of colors which makes it even easier to customize for each friend. They are on the pricier side, but the quality is top-notch, and you know your gals will use the shit out of them. I’ve had mine for two years and it still looks brand new! I got each of my bridesmaids a different color with their initials stamped on them.

Alex + Ani Charm Bracelet – these are the BEST if you’re shopping for any woman in your life – even one who doesn’t really wear jewelry! There are a million options, and even the less bling-y girls can still throw one on without feeling too “girly.” Plus, they come in gold, rose gold and silver, which is great because not everybody likes or wears the same color metal. I ended up getting three gold and three silver for the gals in my wedding party, all with different charms, of course. I linked the company’s website, but you can also find them at Nordstrom and on Amazon.

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Miniature Galvanized Hanging Letter – I always like to “embellish” the outside of a gift. Whether it’s tying an ornament on a Christmas gift, or a little dog bone on a doggy gift [yes, I do give dogs gifts], it’s a fun little addition to the the top or front that, to me, just adds a little “something”. For my girls, I found these small, ornament-sized galvanized metal letters that I hung from each bag, with their respective initial of course. I linked a larger version, but you can also find a similar product at Hobby Lobby. It’s an inexpensive way to add flair to a gift, and, something your gal can either hang on her Christmas tree, or prop up somewhere as home decor.

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Miniature Alcohol Bottles – this is kind of a “well, DUH” gift addition. Unless you or your girls aren’t drinkers, a tiny bottle of your gal’s favorite drink is a fun and cheap gift option [although, in lieu of this, you could do mini coffee or tea, or mini juices – if you keep your eyes peeled at the store, you can literally find anything!]. I know a lot of women go this route, and put custom labels on the bottles which is super clever! I wanted these to be an addition, not the main attraction, but what friend doesn’t appreciate a free tiny bottle of their cocktail of choice? I found the drinks I was searching for at BevMo [linked], but Total Wine, World Market, and some grocery stores carry them as well.


Athleisure – what gal doesn’t love a comfy pair of workout pants? The answer is: none. Everybody loves comfy clothes! Especially when they can double as lounge wear and athletic wear [aka: athleisure]. I splurged a little bit with these because I didn’t want to buy crappy quality pants for my friends. May as well pay a little more for something that’s going to last a little longer, right? For two of my friends, I got pants from Lulu Lemon, for two more, I got pants from Goldsheep [this brand is great if you want fun prints and patterns!], and for the other two, I got bottoms from Carbon 38 [which, in addition to carrying its own brand, also carries a bunch of others]. I ended up getting fun/funky prints and patterns for all the girls in my bunch. Even though they may not end up wearing them as much, I did follow a theme for each girl and wanted the pants to coincide.


In addition to all the little gifts I gave my bridesmaids, I also wrote each of them a poem which inevitably asked them to be in my wedding. I wanted to stick to my theme of doing something personal for each of them, and I thought what better and more clever way of doing that then writing a poem? Granted, I am a writer and I enjoy doing those types of things – I know writing, especially poetry, doesn’t come easy to most people [poetry really isn’t my cup of tea, usually]. Just a nice, short, personal note to your girls would be the perfect and sweetest way to let your friends know how much you mean to them.

I am so happy to say that all of my bridesmaids said YES! I am ridiculously fortunate to have six beautiful, original and amazing women who will be standing by my side when I say “I do” to the man of my dreams. Each step of this wedding planning process has brought me so much joy, and even more excitement for my wedding day. And I’m so lucky to have a dream vendor team, the best bridesmaids a gal could ask for, the perfect fiancé, and the ideal date and location. Counting my lucky stars, and counting down the days until I become a Higgins! [267, to be exact!]

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